Dating Failure - End the Pain of Perpetual Break Up
Lucy OBrien
If you've been dating for a while but you don't yet seem to have found the relationship you are looking for, perhaps you are wondering where it's all going wrong? Dating failure can be painful and confusing and if you have had a string of break ups, you may have become hardened and cynical or may even shy away from dating altogether.
"It can't be me" you think, "it must be that all men are..." (insert your favourite derogatory term to describe men here). After I had failed several times over at dating, I began to think that it must be me after all, and I was right. Believe it or not, that was good because I could then learn how to change and take control.
When I was dating, my continual failure hurt. Every break up was a blow to my confidence until I finally felt so anaesthetised to the pain of losing yet another man that it didn't seem to matter that much any more.
As a woman you have the natural and powerful ability to make a man happy. However many women inadvertently drive away the men they are dating with attitudes and actions that do not serve them.
You will no doubt have heard the phase "Carry on doing what you've always done and you'll carry on getting what you've always got". The good news is that it only takes a few small tweaks to your attitude and dating strategy to end the pain of dating failure and hook yourself a fabulous man. I know because I have been through the pain and the success and now I want to help you to do the same.
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